Golden Retriever Faced With Frisky Feline Moving In

Dear Tabby,

We recently adopted an adorable kitten named Whiskers to join our family, which includes our 12-year-old Golden Retriever, Max. We thought Max would love having a new friend, but he seems more annoyed than amused.

Max grumbles when Whiskers tries to play with him and has started spending more time alone in his bed. We’re worried that we’ve upset our old boy’s golden years. How can we help Max accept Whiskers and enjoy his new feline sibling?

Canine-Kitty Conundrum in Cleveland

Dear Canine-Kitty Conundrum,

Ah, the classic tale of an old dog and new tricks… or in this case, a new kitten! It seems your golden oldie isn’t quite ready for a feline fountain of youth. But don’t worry, with some patience and clever strategies, we can turn this multi-species muddle into a harmonious household!

First, remember that Max is like a distinguished gentleman who’s suddenly found himself at a kitten rave. It’s a lot for an older dog to handle! The key is to make sure Max doesn’t feel his position as top dog (or only dog) is threatened.

Start by ensuring Max has his own safe spaces where Whiskers can’t intrude. Set up baby gates or use high perches for the kitten, allowing Max some kitten-free zones. This gives your canine companion a chance to retreat when he needs a break from kitten chaos.

Next, don’t force interactions. Let Max set the pace for getting to know Whiskers. Reward Max with treats and praise when he shows calm behavior around the kitten. This positive reinforcement will help him associate Whiskers with good things.

Make sure Max still gets plenty of one-on-one time with you. Special walks or cuddle sessions can reassure him that he hasn’t been replaced in your heart.

Consider your timing for play sessions. Kittens are often most active at dawn and dusk, which might clash with Max’s more relaxed schedule. Try engaging Whiskers in play when Max is naturally more restful.

Lastly, be patient. Interspecies friendships can take time to develop, especially with a significant age gap. With consistent positive experiences and respect for Max’s boundaries, you may find that Whiskers and Max eventually become the best of oddball buddies.

Here’s to teaching an old dog to love a new cat!

Whiskers and wags,

Tabby

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